Monday, October 11, 2010

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I'm Frustrated with My Fiancé for Not Helping!

Have you noticed that your fiancé would much rather leave ALL of the wedding planning to you? If you've been waiting for him to jump in and help and he hasn't, it's understandable that you'd feel a bit frustrated. Perhaps your fiancé feels a little out of place in all of the planning. Men typically feel clueless and overwhelmed when faced with planning a wedding.

One idea is to give him specific, small tasks to accomplish. By getting him to help in small doses, you will feel better and he won't be overwhelmed. Often times, it's a simple case of crossed communication lines. Be specific and you'll probably notice that he doesn't mind helping at all.

comment - yes its true..ada masanya kalau aku dah tension aku nanges kat daddy, salahkan dia sebab tak nak get involved..tapi daddy cakap "cuba mummy bgtau ape yg daddy kena buat..daddy pun tak tau..kalau ada mesti daddy tolong punye" aku jawab "nah!tolong buat bunga pahar ni sume" hakhakhak..kidding..


2 comments:

harzharun said...

hi dear....cuba u byng plak tunang yg asik duk 'tny bunga pahar dah siap?'...'hantaran dah gubah?'...'kata smlm nak ikat reben kat doorgift, napae nak kuar lak?'....hahhh lg tensen wei!!!...

my hubby (dulu tunang la) mmg asik duk ambik tahu....sudsah jugak tau...stress!!... :-P

Baby Gina said...

mak aii...hardcore nye hubby u dulu2 tu..hehhehe asak serem gak dengo..
okay pasni jumpa tunang nak ckp "sayang..lupekan jelah..nak kawen je pon bukan buat roket heheheh"